How To Properly Dispose of an American Flag in Montana

Few things get under my skin more than seeing an American flag in disrepair. Recently, I was at a funeral and the flags in the cemetery were so worn and tattered, it felt wrong.

I couldn’t sit quietly. I had to say something, so I spoke with the caretaker. I don’t know if anything came of it, but sometimes, you just have to stand up for what’s right. Especially when it comes to the symbol that represents our freedom, our service members, and the sacrifices made for this country.

Why Flag Care Matters

The American flag isn’t just fabric and thread. It’s history. It’s pride. It’s a living symbol of everything this country is supposed to stand for. And here in Montana, where people show up for each other and tradition means something, taking care of the flag is personal. When it becomes faded or torn, we’re not just letting a symbol fall apart, we’re letting respect slip through the cracks.

Know When It’s Time to Say Goodbye

We’ve all seen it - the frayed edges, the faded stripes, a corner coming loose in the wind. It’s hard to let go of a flag that’s flown for years, but when it reaches a certain condition, it’s time. The United States Flag Code says a flag that is “no longer a fitting emblem for display” should be retired “in a dignified way, preferably by burning.” That word 'dignified' is key. There’s an honorable way to say goodbye, and it matters.

Three Respectful Ways to Retire Your Flag

Flag Burning: If you feel comfortable retiring your flag yourself, you can do so by burning. The Veterans of Foreign Wars says you should start by folding it properly (there are many step-by-step guides online if you’re unsure). Build a fire large enough to completely consume the flag, then place it gently on the flames. You may want to observe a moment of silence or recite the Pledge of Allegiance. Afterward, allow the ashes to cool, then gather and bury them with respect.

Flag Burial: Burial is another meaningful option. Fold the flag carefully, place it in a dignified box or container, and bury it in a quiet place. Whether it’s in your yard, at a camp, or another private location, this act can feel incredibly personal.

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Flag Donation: If you’re unsure about doing it yourself, or want to make sure it’s handled according to tradition, donate your flag to an organization that understands the process. The American Legion, Veterans of Foreign Wars, and even local Boy or Girl Scout troops will accept your worn flag and ensure it’s retired with the respect it deserves. There’s no charge, just care and honor.

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A Montana Reminder

Living in Montana means something. We honor the land, our neighbors, and those who’ve served. Respecting the American flag is just one more way we show that. The U.S. Flag Code even states, “The flag represents a living country and is itself considered a living thing.” So let’s treat it that way. Check your flag. If it’s seen better days, make a plan to retire it properly. And if you need help, Laurel Ace Hardware is ready for you on June 14.